When I was in the process of leaving my husband, I would go out early and stay out till 3-4am and then come home... For like a week, every night, when I would come home Id be so tired, and it was so dark (we lived out in the country) that I hit the garage sides every time I pulled into it.
I have white streaks on both sides of my car.
and most days Id just shrug and wait till morning to see the damage.