cal seriously have a look at
www.darkfallonline.com it might never happen (been alooooong time in the making) but if it does it might be what you're looking for, I'm going to head that way meself if it ever happens.
I feel the same way as pala tho, I really can't play on a non pvp server drives me insane, can't even play normal
UO now, trammel drives me mad despite the fact I never played
UO pre tram.
Server used to be better. The Starseekers used to be great in ashenvale, if you were horde you were dead -unless- you were a loan tauren druid who they'd keep an eye on, but hey as the game gets older more and more people want to pve or pvp, now there is such a thing as "endgame pvp" (arena's) less and less people rp, me being as bad as this as anyone else, I do enjoy rp but I don't go out of my way to do it, if I get the chance I will but...well
WoW isn't as good as
UO on that front as has been said in this thread a couple of times.