| I dont get why people feel they need to have it all and if they find they are "sacrificing" their precious career for a child then perhaps they should either do what they want to do careerwise first then have kids or dont have any if one of the partners isnt willing to be at home and look after them i hate all this shipping them off the second the nursery or nanny is able to take them. Also all the crap about oo we need the money oo we need this and that scale down smaller house less holidays go without once in a while.
Or if nesecery get a part time job fitting around the main earners hours. The bottom line is if you want kids you should be prepared and want to spend time with them if your both more worried about your work then nows not the time for you to be procreating im not saying it should be the women who has to stay home in fact in our house im currently looking into going full time while dave wants to cut back and spend more time at home. |